Rules Of Engagement: Top Tips For Men

17th July 2019

If you’re thinking about asking your partner to marry you in the near future, it’s important to prepare yourself for the adventure ahead. It’s exciting, scary, and a whirlwind of emotions. Still, with the right preparations in place, you can achieve some truly incredible things.

Here are three simple tips that will help make it happen.

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#1. Do Not Propose At Another Wedding

Before worrying about the wedding itself, you’ll need to think about popping the question. There are many classic places to do this including on holiday or on the anniversary of your first date. However, the commonly used solution of getting down on one knee during someone else’s wedding is a terrible idea. Not least because it steals the spotlight from the couple.

While the idea of asking the love of your life to marry you in front of a group may seem romantic, the guests at this wedding aren’t all your friends. Your bride-to-be will have time to show off later on anyway. So, while you can impress your partner with these engagement rings, it’s vital to choose the right time and place. Someone else’s wedding is neither.

Whether you opt for a private proposal or a public one, take your time to plan it out in style. After all, this is a huge moment in your relationship.

#2. Keep Things Moving

There are no set rules on how long your engagement should last. Some couples get married within three months while others may wait several years. Whichever route you take, however, it’s important to keep things moving in the right direction. Otherwise, you run the risk of losing enthusiasm for the big day, which can seriously harm the preparations.

Even if it’s simply visiting a wedding fayre without actually booking anything, it’ll keep the excitement levels high. Meanwhile, organising your ideas so that you can book items early will give you the best shot of keeping the costs at a reasonable level. It’s a harsh reality, but money matters during the wedding preparations.

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While the wedding day plans needn’t be the only thing going on in your life, they deserve a lot of attention.

#3. Accept That It Means More To Her

While you both care equally about the commitment you’re making to each other, the nuances of the big day mean more to her. If you’re a fan of Friends, you’ll remember a scene where Monica explains to Ross that women think about the perfect wedding from childhood. Crucially, having an understanding guy is the most vital part. Be that guy!

The wedding preparations can get stressful, especially as you edge towards the final weeks. While you’ll certainly want to play an active role, you won’t want to cause unnecessary arguments. When it comes to small things like flower arrangements, it’s probably best to let her take control. Besides, it’ll allow you to have a greater say on the food, outfit, and entertainment.

Taking this approach will reduce stress, and it’ll ensure that you start your new life together with smiles on your faces.

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