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Believe it or not, somewhere there is the right guy for you.
He could be in Philadelphia waiting for you at the Liberty Bell or NYC’s eye-pleasing central park — you just have to spot him.
We all know destiny plays its tricks. You will meet many toxic guys before you find the man of your dreams with whom you would love to spend the rest of your life.
To further help, in this article, we have rounded up four qualities of a good man that you should look for.
The significant difference between a player like Uncle Charlie from Two and a Half Man and a real committed man is his “Emotional Availability”
An emotional guy can give you the steady stream of love & affection you deserve in your life.
On the flip side, if he goes from hot to cold, back & forth, it is a telling sign that your man is “Emotionally Unavailable.”
So, at the end of the day, you will have little love for a few days because of physical intimacy, and then he will push himself back to prey on another chick.
Now, you wonder what emotional availability is?…
It means the individual is ready to discuss personal life, past relationships, and family.
There will be guys avoiding conversations about commitment. So, be wary of them.
Many men hold the widespread belief that if they show their feelings or vulnerability, then they would be termed, weak men.
For them, ego is way more important.
However, a man is essential if he can control his ego.
How to Know That?…
You’ll be able to recognize such a high quality just by having a small conversation because they would not be afraid to put forth their thoughts, mistakes, feelings, and weaknesses.
Based on the personal experience of many women, it is rare to find a man who respects a woman’s career, especially a decade or two back.
And, if you do someone, stick to him, no matter what.
If you want to date a man who gives you the freedom to follow your professional dreams, you must discuss it. If you’re uncomfortable talking about your job, he may not be the right man for you.
This means that instead of getting stuck in a conversation about what TV shows he watches or how much he hates his boss, talk to him about the projects you’re working on. The people you work with, and the things that inspire you. If he seems disinterested, it’s time to call off your relationship.
Top 100 women in Philadelphia have read “How to Marry a Fabulous Man” and implemented all the learnings to find the man of their dreams. The book touches upon a variety of aspects, spanning from how to have a great first date, avoiding dating hazards, and finally, getting your man to commit.
Emotional Intelligence, aka EQ, has become the buzzword in the world of relationships.
An emotionally intelligent man puts himself in your shoes and understands your feelings, thus increasing the odds of a healthy relationship.
The best way to know if your man has EQ is through his kind & supportive behaviour when you’re in distress.
Other signs of Emotional Intelligence include a humble attitude, forgiveness, self-respect, and apology.
So, are you searching for the right guy to bring bundles of joy & happiness into your life? What are your criteria? Share your thoughts with us; our readers would love to know.
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Welcome to Birds and Lilies! I'm Lou: mother, blogger and freelance writer. This is my lifestyle blog, where I talk about motherhood, infertility and IVF, beauty, my love for food and wine, as well as my thoughts about stuff, and our real-life and travel adventures.
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