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Congratulations on almost becoming one, you two! You’re nearly there; the time for sheer happiness is nigh. Every single person on the planet thinks about getting married to the love of their life – even those that claim they hate the whole idea still picture doing it. You’re a lucky one, though, because you know it’s coming and everything is well and truly set in motion. You’re not relying solely on your imagination like many others around the world!
What’s that? You’re getting a little shaky? Yeah, that’s pretty understandable. Loads of people get nervous due to things like the planning and the stagefright, so it’s nothing to feel weird about. Weddings are beautiful occasions, however, so the nerves are pretty unnecessary! If you feel as though you need some reassurance in order to calm down a little and feel nothing but excitement towards the big day, then have a little read of these:
Remember That It’s Supposed To Be Positive!
The entire day is supposed to be one of positivity and happiness. Nobody turns up to a wedding wishing ill on anyone – well, maybe an ex that decides to turn up and cause a ruckus! In all seriousness, though, people can get a little bogged down in the details and whether or not everything will be perfect. It won’t be perfect, but it’ll be perfect for you because you’ll get everything you want.
Consider How Proud Everyone Will Be
Everyone that turns up will be rooted for you guys. They’re all attending because they want to. Some might act as if they don’t want to be there, but if they really didn’t, then they wouldn’t show! Marriage is such an important part of someone’s life, and those in attendance will want to see you as you engage in the biggest day of your life. Very few things in life will top this, so imagine all of the beaming smiles on all of the faces!
Nothing Will Ever Be As Bad As You Think
If you’re a pessimist, then you’ll think that everything is terrible and lots will go wrong. Our brains have this strange power of making us worry about things that don’t actually exist. Most of the nerves you’re feeling right now are based on little problems that you’ve conjured up yourself. They’re not going to happen – trust this. How many times have you predicted something horrendous happening, only to find out that it’s nothing like what you pictured? Lots of times, that’s how many! You’ll be golden.
Think Of The Fun!
Once the ceremony is done, and the formalities are handled, the fun begins! The reception is all about sharing a wonderful time with friends and family. The party is about having all of the laughs and creating memories! You can’t forget the honeymoon now, can you? When you trawled through those honeymoon packages when trying to find the perfect getaway, did you really do it out of anything other than positive reasons? Weddings and everything surrounding them are supposed to be fun, wonderful experiences; not things you HAVE to do!
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Welcome to Birds and Lilies! I'm Lou: mother, blogger and freelance writer. This is my lifestyle blog, where I talk about motherhood, infertility and IVF, beauty, my love for food and wine, as well as my thoughts about stuff, and our real-life and travel adventures.
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